2 Questions

1- What is with all the lag and disconnects lately? I hope it's not my router. I have comcast cable and have an ethernet cable directly plugged into my
ps3

2- I have gameflow turned off. So why does it make me press square to disable it in game lately?

You need to switch from GamePlan to Conventional mode when searching for a ranked game. If you just use default search settings, you'll have to play w/ gameplan & click square/x to go to your playbook everytime.